Wednesday, 24 February 2010

HBD RIP @ FACEBOOK

FACEBOOK內究竟是感情泛濫,還是人間有情?


得有面薄,很多十年也不聯絡一下的朋友都會失驚無神地出現,或搭訕,或表態,最簡單的是LIKE你的status,而最踴躍的就是說生日快樂,熱情之程度是在生日來臨前兩天已經有人開始HAPPY BIRTHDAY,一直HAP至生日過後兩日都還在補祝。


只要有一個人開始送上生日祝福,即如病毒開始傳播,惹來甲乙丙丁戌都來祝壽,荒死蝕底;曾經有朋友說那些不準時的生日快樂令他以為忘記了自己的生日。其實,那些面簿上的生日快樂如一聲HI,不必深究背後是否有意義,只是有些人實在太過無心裝有心,根本連人家的生日在哪天都不知道。


一句生日快樂如何隨便如何公式如何人云亦云都是一句祝福,如果太計較真情假意的話,人是不能快樂起來的,我知,不過我比較喜歡準時。


還有,現在十分流行R.I.P這幾個字母 ( rest in peace)。那夜傳來Alexander McQueen的死訊,不消數分鐘已經有人在FACEBOOK 為McQueen 奔喪,R.I.P前R.I.P後。


當中有幾多人真正對Alexander McQueen有認識,感受到他的離開對時裝界帶來多大的遺憾?買過一雙他的高跟鞋便對他有感情?


如果說那句R.I.P只是為消逝的生命送上祝福,但若蒼生是平等,為什麼我看不到有人為那位命喪醉駕的老師或在馬鞍山連環枉死的婦人送上一句R.I.P?當然,連季羨林也得不到大家的垂青,何況平民。


面簿好玩的地方,就是看到人性。

2 comments:

Albert said...

to me facebook have another meaning, is to connect to friends, help each other to think postively and be happy.. this is what i always believe, when friends/me are/is down, there are someone there to care, i mean real care, not just a word of 'take care', is the thought that come from that person.. it really mean alots sometime :)
love love friends :)

Anonymous said...

"買過一雙他的高跟鞋便對他有感情?"

some people see more than shoes. If you can/t see his genius, don't assume everyone is the same. people don't need to 'know' him to know he's gifted. and fine to be sad because a genius has left