究竟問人借錢難,還是問人還錢難?
我的答案是叫人還錢難,難怪收數佬其門如市。
當社會越來越富庶,借錢這個行為不再如以往會被人視為丟臉,失敗的行為,借錢不一定經濟出現問題,借錢已經變成財技的一種,可視為增加資金流, 用財富製造財富 ;肯借錢,銀行歡迎都來不及,簡單到只需一個電話便可即時獲得批核,現金即時送上。
還錢?難矣。
錢有時是不知不覺間「借」了出去,我經歷最多的就是買演唱會門票的案例。
落訂單的時候很踴躍很主動,到了付款的時候,發了電郵短訊都如石沉大海, 三催四請,請轉賬,請開支票,不給就是不給,追著追著 忽然自己感覺難堪,預墊那區區一萬幾千便那麼緊張,像煞自己經濟出現問題一樣,於是現在我已經很少很少會替人訂演唱會飛,免了追數之苦。
不過,有些情形是防不勝防的,例如食飯,群飯的情況更易遇上賴帳的情況。能夠同枱食飯而不即時付錢,想必有一定的交情才能有這個行為;熟朋友也不好意思追得太緊。
難得的是 欠人錢的從不會自動自覺,這些人最幸福 ,欠人的不放在心上;於是作為朋友的我便要厚著面皮,冒著不近人情之名去追討那幾佰銀的飯數,那其實是很難開口,但明明是人家欠我錢,為什麼難堪的是我,只怪自己的面皮不夠厚。
問了一次,沒有現金,第二次,未去自動櫃員機,三次,噢!從銀行拿了現金,不過放了在家…
第四次已經不知可以從何入手,又再想為甚麼為了一千幾佰要那麼緊張,我很窮嗎?但那錢本來就是我的……
究竟,誰又欠了誰?
法國 康城篇 (三) Hotel Five & Spa
11 hours ago
3 意見:
you spook my heart dude!
who owed whom?
i guess this is the debt i owed to friendship ^^
i take no shit unless you are my best pals.
我都試過做俾人追吃飯錢,但是當追數的人一板起面色,我就拿拿淋交返d錢出來啦......!
Here is a suggestion, although i sort of hate it. One time I had dinner with my friend (supposed to be my treat) but the restaurant doesn't accept credit and i was out of cash. So my friend paid the bill and I told her that I will take her out again next time. My friend didn't answer but when we walked out the resturant she immeidately escorted me to the close by ATM machine. I felt kind of sad of her doing it but no doubt this is the quickest way to collect your money back.
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