世界上沒有純粹為了愛而去愛一個人，愛上一個人一定有原因。
那些原因由外在到內在，他有胸肌，有學識，高六呎高，有幽默感，顧家，懂按摩都可以是愛一個人的理由，沒有人因為這些理由而質疑你們的愛。
唯獨有一個原因例外，假如你是因為這個理由而跟這個人一起，那就不是愛。
錢。
為什麼不可以因為錢而愛一個人呢？錢為什麼不能跟顧家，英俊，善良同等？
因為他富有而跟他一起，就會給人說貪錢，如果因為他有學識而愛他就叫愛才，不會說成貪才。
梁洛施跟李澤楷的關係不是百分百真愛，因為沒有可能，世上是沒有無條件的愛。
你愛他因為他有能令你快樂起來的能力，金錢有令人快樂起來的能力，有何不可？
我們要以平常心看待金錢，不應該歧視它，視錢財如性能力強，只是令大家快樂起來的因素而已。
梁洛施因為錢愛李澤楷和李澤楷因為梁洛施年輕貌美而愛她，都沒有問題，這是各取所需。
李澤楷如果沒有財力勢力如何做得成白武士，把isabella 從英皇拯救出來？
我做梁洛施，有人肯為我出錢出力救我於火坑，如何可以不愛他？我下一世也跟他。
而我相信如果李澤楷除了有錢之外應該還有其他可愛的條件，例如我仍然覺得他說話時口窒窒是十分CUTE，就如大劉每次發火或發言也爆可愛一樣。
看不起和富豪交往的人，很大的原因是眼紅，只有會為錢出賣一切的人，才會覺得別人會因為錢而出賣自己，只是沒有機會。
說別人因為錢結合，侮辱別人，失禮自己。
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個問題唔係同富商交往，係生完仔個男人都唔結婚，係對女人嘅一種侮辱。而點解係其他人嘅眼中佢地咁樣冇問題，就只係因為男方有錢?
令我諗起周慧敏話「我個男人絕對犯得起呢個錯」一樣.
香港係一個好有趣的 double standard 的地方，只要一個人有錢，基本上任何事情發生在那個人身上都理所當言。
於是 Karen 個鞋王有三個老婆無人(傳媒)覺得有問題，賭王有四個老婆又無人(傳媒)覺得有問題，李楷楷生完仔唔結婚又無人(傳媒)覺得有問題。
但只要件事個主角換左做天水圍的一個綜緩漢，甚至是求其一個普通中產男人，個男人就變成天下罪人，賤漢人辦負心人，等著比人批判。
完全唔知呢o的係咩傳媒道德觀。
素顏天使™,
係 lor~ It's not only傳媒, but many HK ppl also think like this... =*(
(sorry 借個地方用用) ** 飛雪素素 ** > 事件本身是人地家事咁外人二打六如我們當然無資格去評論對與錯, 我只係覺得呢個「有錢就乜都得的」雙重標準現像在香港好似特別犀利咁 je.
我個人覺得...
結婚與否係李生與梁小姐的家內事,至於專吾專重,係呢個層面上亦祇係梁小姐有資格評論.至少李生肯站出來發新聞照,承認兒子與女友身份,而且佢地相識時間短可能係相處下至決定下一步點走,結婚吾係必然,祇覺呢一刻他們仨應是快樂的!
ps.看到眾英皇師姐妹回應依沙貝生子很有漏晒口水之感.像說:妳就好啦!逃離英爪...我地仲要晚晚應酬呀...陰公!
>>結婚與否係李生與梁小姐的家內事.
Absolutely right!
EC
我覺得人各有志, 冇乜唔好呀, 唔會結啦。離婚點算? 男未婚女未嫁, 本身就同法律道德無關, 浪漫d睇件事, 只不過係白馬王子搵咗20年至搵到佢的灰姑娘。
唔知呢, 可能我個人現實, 我覺得男女都要保障自己經濟/人生, 咁講真, 為乜有d人淨同居唔結婚? 咁女人都唔自愛,有乜好講? 有sex的權利, 冇身份負擔的責任, 我都覺得係對女性的貶低喎。 我覺得, 就算一百萬個女人, 一百萬個女人都會想搵個男人照顧自己一生一世唔駛做, 弄兒為樂, 咁橋佢搵到個係全城最有錢啫。
婚姻本身係一件好fair的事, 大家為咗一段關係, 唔可以有婚外情, 因為離異要有經濟補償, 同時, 隨住保險受益人要寫老公個名, 我都係俾緊一種保障佢目的係希望我的配偶有名份, 有保障 唔知呢, 宏觀d睇, 同居唔結婚; 生仔唔結婚, 其實都冇尊重過一夫一妻制制度, 或者男性女性平等的制度。
Judy
我看到報紙說:
李生安排兒子與女友居住新加坡感覺好照顧佢保護倆母子,雖然還未結婚但佢都坦白公告,或者佢太有錢好多財務安排個人考慮,到底女朋友祇得22歲...要結婚大把時間.
One thing for sure is, Mr Lee owns 信報,PCCW and NOW TV, so owns 1/3 of the media in HK already if not more. If you control the media, you can tell any story you want. To be rich is just one way to control the media. Look at China, you can control the media if you have power.
-b
我好認同素顏天使說法, 香港話明一夫一妻制, 但係啲富商人人三妻四妾就 OK.
一夫一妻,表面上囉!
慘份得過D女又肯呀.都係供求問題,
我有錢點祇女人車都想買多兩架都係人的欲望.不過錢吾夠多就無得好講.
> 因為他富有而跟他一起，就會給人說貪錢，如果因為他有學識而愛他就叫愛才，不會說成貪才。
I agree with you that money is just one desirable quality of men and should be considered equivalent to other qualities such as appearance, talent, etc.
The reason people condemn being "greedy" about money is that some girls regard it as the only or 90%+ of the reasons why they choose to marry a man. This doesn't really affect other people; it's just a bad strategy for choosing a mate.
Likewise, if a girl chooses to marry a man solely because of his talent or handsomeness while he can't provide financial security at all, it's also a bad strategy. As in many other things (such as lifestyle), it's just a matter of achieving a delicate balance.
> 係生完仔個男人都唔結婚，係對女人嘅一種侮辱。
This shows that the man isn't really responsible. Marriage to a man is a commitment to look after his wife and family for the rest of his life; for some reason, 李澤楷 thinks that he's not ready to make such a commitment yet.
> 香港係一個好有趣的 double standard 的地方，只要一個人有錢，基本上任何事情發生在那個人身上都理所當言。
Agreed indeed. As some commenter pointed out, it's their 家事 and isn't really anyone's business. The issue is that people in different social statuses aren't being treated equally/fairly.
As 素顏天使 said, if 李澤楷 is a normal 40+ guy who makes a girl in her early 20's pregnant and doesn't want to marry her, he'll definitely be condemned by society.
And, if it's some Mong Kok girl who chooses to be with various rich men in short periods just for the sake of money, will she not be criticized? It's still 各取所需.
The point isn't what behavior to approve/condemn; the point it to judge/comment on people equally/fairly regardless of their wealth, backgrounds and social statuses.
放過人啦!
"The point isn't what behavior to approve/condemn; the point it to judge/comment on people equally/fairly regardless of their wealth, backgrounds and social statuses." <-- totally agree.
We are not targeting one person here. We are talking about why ppl were judged differently based on wealth/social status.
Some people will never get this, because they would rather believe that everyone is jealous. This is the only way they can explain things in such twisted society.
> 因為他富有而跟他一起，就會給人說貪錢，如果因為他有學識而愛他就叫愛才，不會說成貪才。
認同到不得之了，女人因為錢同一個人一齊, 同埋男人睇中個女仔生得靚有咩分別... 一鬼樣!
mouse
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